Body language is a non-verbal language we all speak on a mostly subconscious level… and it accounts for over 90% of communication between people!
Body language is a conversation between people which starts before you have even begun talking …it IS the ultimate conversation starter!
Knowing how to let your body speak for you will greatly increase your chances of success with the girls! Here are some tips for making a good first impression:
TIP 1: Eye Contact
The eyes are the windows to the soul, so keep ‘em open, and keep ‘em on her! If you are on the other side of the room, a good steady gaze accompanied with a warm smile will let her know that you are friendly, confident, and that you want to talk to her.
TIP 2: Good Posture
Keep your chest out, not only will it show that you are confident, but your pecks will look bigger …bonus!
TIP 3: Open Body
Stand with your legs and arms relaxed and open, no crossed arm or legs, or you will seem shy and defensive …and in need of a pee!
TIP 4: Touch Her
No grabbing and don’t overdo it! Just gentle caressing of the arm or a brush of your shoulder against hers and she will be in no doubt of the fact that you are interested in her. You will know if she likes it as she will do the same to you. If she doesn’t respond right off the bat, ease off!
TIP 5: Lean In
Lean into her slightly when she is speaking, as if you are slightly hard of hearing, then lean back again when it’s your turn to talk. Just another excuse to get closer to her really!
TIP 6: Dale Head Drop
Look at her. When she meets your gaze, drop your head slightly down and to the left and half-smile. It will say to her ‘come over here and get me’!
TIP 7: Thumbs In The Belt
Attention all line-dancers …these rules do not apply on the dance floor! Standing with your thumbs in your belt with you palms on your hips, could be seen as a negative or a positive, depending on what kind of impression you want to make. It is a highly sexual signal. In this position, you will appear to be very confident with both your sexuality and your size, but this may show all the signs of someone who is in the mood for a one night stand!
These tips are not designed to trick or tease anyone; they are an extension of the instincts nature already gave you to meet the opposite sex.
Once you have mastered your signals, and you spot a girl wading in your direction through a sea of men, do you know what to say next? Your first few words are critical and could be the difference between painful embarrassment or the start of your path to becoming a true woman-attracting alpha male!
Now that you know what to do with your body – it’s time to learn what to do with your words. Check out what is probably the greatest guide to attracting and seducing any woman ever written.
Don’t spend the rest of your life “hoping” she will come and talk to you – show won’t! Take action and learn how to truly communicate with women by following this simple guide.
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